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The Secret to Stress-Free Hosting: Organize Before the Doorbell Rings
- Tara Button
- Oct 30
- 2 min read
You know that moment when your guests are due any minute and suddenly the corkscrew, the good platter, and your composure have all vanished? Of course you do. We’ve all been there — apron half-tied, oven mitt dangling off one hand, pretending the house doesn’t look like a small hurricane passed through.
Hosting season is wonderful in theory — candlelight, laughter, full glasses, hygge anyone?! In practice, it can quickly become a masterclass in panic efficiency. But here’s the truth no one tells you: the real key to calm, effortless entertaining isn’t in your menu or your playlist. It’s in your organization and delegation - and the latter is a hard one for me.
When Everything Has a Place (Including Your Sanity)
An organized home is the difference between gliding around your kitchen like a serene domestic goddess and tearing through drawers muttering, “I swear we own tongs” When things are labelled and in their rightful spots, you can actually find them. Revolutionary, I know.
Better still, your guests can find them too. There’s something quite freeing about being able to say, “turkey baster in the middle drawer,” and having that actually be true. No awkward shuffling while they pretend not to see the chaos under the tea towels. Labeled drawers quietly say, “Please, help yourself,” which turns hosting into a team sport rather than a solo endurance event.
The Flow Factor
When your home is organized, the whole event flows differently. People naturally move around without bottlenecking in the kitchen. You can plate food without clearing space with your elbow. The evening unfolds rather than unravels.
Organization isn’t about being rigid — it’s about giving yourself the freedom to relax. A tidy countertop buys you time to top up glasses, join the conversation, and actually be present. Guests don’t remember whether your napkins were linen or paper, but they do remember if you looked like you were one oven timer away from tears.
The Aftermath (Or Lack Thereof)
And here’s the real joy: when the last guest leaves and you’re left with the satisfying clink of glasses and a faint whiff of candle smoke, you don’t face an archaeological dig of dishes and mystery crumbs. Because everything already has a home. You just pop things in the dishwasher and once done, unload and back where they belong, pat yourself on the back, and head to bed feeling smugly competent.
So before your next gathering, take ten minutes to give your kitchen drawers a proper sort, slap on a few labels, and set yourself up for success. Your future self — and your guests — will thank you.
Because when everything’s in its place, you can be too. Preferably with a glass of something nice in hand.
Happy Upcoming Holidays,
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